The heart can actually never break!
It only absorbs. Both in the biological as well as metaphorical scenarios.
Allow me to explain.
Being in love with someone or something is one of the most cherished activities of the heart. It is a process, where in the heart goes through stages. The mind and the heart work together on this when it comes to people. (which i will explain some other time.)
The first time theres a heart-to-heart connect with a new person, the heart starts to absorb new info and so does the mind.
It absorbs as much as it can from a particular person, which in the course of a lifetime is can actually never reach saturation. Because it simply nurtures and grows a bond with that person. Going from the initial attention but cold stage to the warm and affectionate and finally to the hot and can't do without. While this is the summit in relationships, it is thus very vulnerable too.
Liken this stage to you having reached the top of a very high mountain. One wrong move now and you have a very harsh and steep fall!
It can take just one wrong move/incident for it to suddenly get filled to explode. You slip from the top and begin an un-desired fall.
That's when we feel the sensation of heart-ache or better known as heart-break.
My point here is, The heart isn't made of glass. It's a muscle. One that pumps in and pumps out. Similarly what it cannot purify it simply discards. In other words, the stage to move on.
NOTE:Dedicated to all my friends and readers who have been through these stages at least once in their life. Love yourself the most guys and gals. For your own self is the one person that your heart will never give up on. So keep smiling &
God bless!
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